Signs You’re With The Man You Should Marry

He's your biggest fan (arguably next to your mom).

1. He always brags about you. If you get a promotion at work or even just win concert tickets he can't resist telling everyone you hang out with before you even think to mention it. Because he's your biggest fan (arguably next to your mom).

2. He makes sacrifices for you — and you're happy to do the same for him. He'll move cities to live with you if you get a new job or finish grad school. You're happy to make the next move for one of his opportunities.

3. He shares the same values as you. You know you both want kids and expect to split the childcare equally. Or maybe you know you both want kids and he wants to take extended paternity leave. Maybe you've also agreed that you should each get 45 minutes to yourself to go to the gym every day or you plan to buy a home and move to the suburbs in five years. You know you're on the same page with things that matter most to you because you've discussed them.

4. Even after years together he still does little chivalrous things for you. Like open doors for you or carry you to your doorstep when your feet hurt after wearing high heels all day and you just can't bear to walk one more block.

5. He doesn't try to change you. He knows you're messier than him, that you always need a pet cat, and can't cook to save your life, and all of that is all right by him.

6. When you think about marrying him, the best part isn't the wedding, it's the idea of spending your lives together. The wedding is fun, but you really can't wait for the two weeks right after when you'll get uninterrupted honeymoon time.

7. You survived a long-distance relationship. It was hard and scary, but you love each other so much that you were able to make the necessary sacrifices to make it through with a singular goal in mind: living in the same place and being together when it was all over.

8. "I miss you" isn't just a sweet thing you say. It's a reality. Even if it hasn't been that long (like, two hours) since you saw each other.

9. You don’t like having a roommate and love having your own space, but you’d still prefer to live with him. You look forward to the end of the day, not because you’ll be done with work but because you’ll get to see him again.

10. He’s your go-to person whenever you have a story to share, about work, about friends, about anything. You used to tell your parents and friends about all these things, but now you don’t call them quite as much as you used to. They don’t mind because they see how happy you are.

11. You feel comfortable planning things six months — or a year — in the future. You’re not worried you’ll have to cancel plane tickets or say you won’t be needing a plus-one after all. You feel that confident in your relationship.

12. You can cry in front of him without feeling embarrassed. He knows when to worry and when you’re just caught up in a scene of a movie.

13. When your friends complain about their significant others or the guys they’ve gone out with, you get kind of quiet because you don’t have much to contribute. You don’t want to brag, but you just don't have to deal with any of that nonsense because your significant other is great to you.

14. He’s close with your family, and he’s made sure you’ve gotten to know his. He’ll call your dad or your grandma without any hesitation. It just makes sense that you’d go to his nephew’s birthday party, even if he's not there.

15. He cares about your friends. If one of them is having a bad day, he suggests you go spend time with her or invite her to join the two of you for dinner. If he hasn’t heard someone’s name in a while, he asks how she’s doing.

16. He lets you vent. Sometimes when something frustrates you, you just need to go over it again and again. He doesn’t get annoyed at this, and he dismisses your apologies. The only thing that bothers him about the situation is that you’re upset and he wishes you weren’t.

17. He tells you, out of the blue, that you look hot. And it’s on the day you didn’t dry your hair or put on makeup or even change out of your T-shirt and sweatpants.

18. You can do things like travel together without fighting all the time. We've all seen (or been) that tragic couple fighting over where to get lunch at the airport so badly that one of them devolves into tears and puts her shades on indoors and lies across three seats in the terminal. You can do tedious things with your S.O. without all this fighting.

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Top 10 Mistakes Some Guys Make About Girls

Top 10 Mistakes Some Guys Make About Girls

1) Reading too much into her niceness: Trust me,just cos she helped you get what u wanted doesn't mean she's interested in you,I know a couple of nice ladies that are so nice you'd think they're hitting on you,but rather than go ahead and be like 'I love you' go and be like 'are you totally the nicest girl ever or are u hitting on me',its the safest,non awkward way of knowing,if she likes u,or just being nice like she always is with every other dude.

2) Forming Baddest guy ever liveth: Girls can read guys,at least through experience with other guys,and when she smells fake,you'd just hear the door slam,u won't even see her back. I mean what's the fact of knowing you,if u just forming someone else? And honestly,only immature girls like bad guys,or good guys formin bad guys,mature ones want a guy who's real and would love her,appreciate her,and not have to be rude.

3) Be Sir Bragalot,yeah Bragging all the time: We know you got the latest phone,and drive a range rover sport,but not every girl is after money,well 80% of them are after rich dudes,the remaining 20% are the rich ones,or the ones from rich families or broke one with some dignity,so basically if she's anything like the above mentioned then,don't be the rich guy,be the nice guy,and the wealth would just be an add-on,or perks to dating u.

4) Say some ugly stuffs about a girl's appearance:
Yeah! All girls don't look like Megan Fox but don't joke or even talk about the wart on their face,or how chubby,fat or plumb you think they're,trust me they know they're fat,but talking about it just makes them feel bad,too bad I might say.

5) Deny,Deny,Deny: Dude, if she caught you with your hand in another girl's cookie jar (wink wink) you know what I mean,hehehehehee,if she sees your hand in the wrong part of another girls body,don't lie bro,and deny knowing the girl you're caught with,guys ehn! Stop lying and be a man, bro. Seriously, you've the guts to cheat but don't have the guts to admit it? That's chicken.

6) Saying 'I love you' all the time: Yeah,most guys think that 'I love you' is the sure fire way to get that any girl to fall for them,but trust me bro,its not,just as you're telling her that,another guy is telling her that on facebook,and another one is telling her the same thing on whatsapp,do u think she fancies that word much? Change the tactic a little,like first get to know her really well,then go on a few dates,and just make her happy,but when you decide to say it,make sure she's in a good mood,or feeling good about herself,say it at the right time,mehn,I guarantee you,'At least' a long kiss at the end of the day.

7) Talk about 'you know who',that's right your ex: She has impressive bosoms,and nice body,but talking about her is straight weird and rude. Don't mention it,but when a prospective girlfriend bring up a topic about your ex(cos they always do) just be like 'It didn't work out' even if u dumped her Bottom,cos u just didn't fancy her anymore,don't say it,just be like 'it was a tough decision,but we knew we were gonna have to make it,no hard feelings though,we both agreed to it'. You gatto be neutral,cos if u be too nice,the girl would assume u still like ur ex,and if u be too rude,they'd assume you'd talk abt them in the same manner,if they end up being ur ex,so think abt it.

8) Say bad things about her in front of her friends: Trust me,when you say bad poo abt her,how she doesn't sleep,just be up all night chatting with weird dudes on 2go,or maybe how she drinks so much in the club that you'd have to carry her home. because if u make fun of her in front of her friends,her friends won't stop making fun of her,you know her fremenies,yeah,its like setting her on fire while her friends carry buckets of kero to add to the fire,not cool,she's gonna hate u.

9) Joking about everything: No girl will take u serious if u joke about everything,from important things to none important ones,there's a limit to the number of times you're allowed to joke,I'm actually guilty of this,joking a lot. My sarcasm is dangerous.

10) Be a play boy or most guys will call it being a player: Its fun,every attractive guy has done it once before,but when you play with one girl,that one girl tells a bunch of friends and a bunch of friends tells other bunch of friends and the information keeps passing,its bad for your love reputation,because at some point we all gatto fall in love,and trust me it will suck,if u find your one true love and she's afraid of committing to u cos she's scared u might use and dump her like u did with tons of other girls, its just not worth it bro.

Interesting Facts About Love

1. It hurts to love someone and not to be loved by that person. But what hurts the most is to love someone and not find the courage to tell them.

2. Maybe God wants us to meet few wrong people so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

3. Love is when you take away the feelings and romance in a relationship and still find that you still care about that person .

4. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out that it was not meant to be.

5. When one door of happiness closes another opens but often times we keep our focus on the closed doors that we can't seem to see the new door.

6. The best kind of friend is the kind you can just be with, never say a word and walk away feeling it was the best conversation ever.

7. It is true that we don't know what we have until we lose it but it is also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it finally arrives.

8. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back, just wait for it to grow in their hearts but even if it doesn't, just be contented that it grew in your heart.

9. There are things you will love to hear that you may never hear from those you want to hear them from but don't be so deaf not to hear them from those who says it from their hearts.

10. Never say goodbye if you still want to try. Never say you don't love a person anymore when you know you still do.

11. Love comes to only those who still have the courage and faith to build trust again although they have been disappointed in the past.

12. It takes only a minute to like someone, an hour to get a crush on someone but a life time to forget someone.

14. Never go for looks, they can deceive. Never go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

I hope you find that person who can make you smile always...